Describe an argument two of yours friends had - IELTS Cue Card

You should say:

• When it happened
• What it was about
• How it was solved
• Explain how you felt about it

When it happened

I remember an argument that happened last year when two of my close friends were preparing for our college annual fest. It took place in the college canteen during a planning meeting.

What it was about

The argument started because one friend wanted to spend more of the budget on decorations, while the other insisted that most of the money should go towards hiring a professional band for the event. Both of them were passionate about their ideas, and neither wanted to compromise at first.

How it was solved

Finally, our faculty coordinator intervened and suggested dividing the budget equally between decorations and entertainment. The friends eventually calmed down and agreed to the solution, realizing that both aspects were equally important for the success of the event.

Explain how you felt about it

At first, I felt uncomfortable seeing my close friends argue so strongly, but later I was glad that the matter was resolved peacefully. It also made me realize that disagreements are natural, and with proper communication and compromise, they can be turned into positive outcomes.

Follow Up Questions

1. Do you think arguments are important?

Yes, arguments can be important because they allow people to express their opinions openly. If handled respectfully, arguments often lead to better understanding and problem-solving.

2. What do family members usually have arguments about?

Family members often argue about money, household responsibilities, lifestyle choices, or generational differences in thinking. Small issues like watching TV or daily routines can also cause conflicts.

3. Is it easier for you to have arguments with your family or with your friends?

It’s usually easier to argue with family because the bond is stronger and more forgiving. With friends, I tend to be more careful, as harsh words might damage the relationship.

4. Do you think people should change the way they think when they are having arguments?

Yes, they should be more open-minded and willing to listen to the other person’s perspective. Arguments are not about “winning” but about reaching a fair and respectful solution.

5. When two people have an argument, do you think they should find a third party to ask for advice?

Sometimes, yes. If the argument becomes too heated or if both sides are stubborn, a neutral third person can mediate and help them see the situation more clearly.

6. What qualities make a good lawyer?

A good lawyer should have strong communication skills, logical thinking, patience, and the ability to argue convincingly. Integrity, confidence, and deep knowledge of the law are also essential.